Essential SUCCESS Habits 4 U
By PROFF
I cannot overstate the value of building
the correct mindset and perseverance. I believe these two habits are the
fundamental building blocks to enjoying any great success in life.
We all want to succeed. Whether it’s in
losing weight, learning the guitar, speed reading, or starting our own
business. For those of us who have tried and failed, success seems elusive. Why
is it one person succeeds where another person fails? First and foremost, I
believe it is in their mindset. But secondly, I believe that successful people
have developed certain habits, either naturally or through research, that the
rest of us haven’t stumbled upon yet.
Though I want each of you to succeed in
everything you do, I can’t guarantee success. Only you can do that. It starts
in your mind, and from there your thoughts take physical form through your
actions. Believing in yourself is a necessity! Beyond that, I’ve made a list of
some habits to help you set goals and achieve them.
1. Identify your core values
What is important to you? Finding your
core values may seem a bit off-topic when it comes to success, but creating
goals that are in line with your values is key to creating intrinsic
motivation. Sit and reflect on what you value most. Pick a handful of things
and actually write them down. Remind yourself of your values every day, and
reflect on whether you are honoring those values through your work.
2. Pick a goal (Focus)
Choose one goal to start. Something
large enough that will give you a sense of accomplishment, while aligning well
with your core values. Focus is key here. The more focused you are on one goal,
the higher chance you have of success. If you spread yourself too thin, you
might never complete your projects because they will take far too long. Believe
me, multitasking isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
3. Set a deadline for success
Set a date for success. Identify when
your hope to achieve your goal. Keep it realistic, while not giving yourself
too much time. By setting a time limit, you are making the process more real.
You also now have something to visualize in the next point.
4. Build the right mindset
Believe fully in your ability to achieve
your goal. Visualize yourself having completed your goal in the exact
time-frame you have chosen, although finishing early is also acceptable. You
don’t need to consider the failures that will happen along the way. Success is
inevitable. Others may think you will fail, don’t let yourself be one of them!
(If you have trouble visualizing success, perhaps a fear of success is limiting
you)
“Whether you think that you can, or that
you can’t, you are usually right.” - Henry Ford
5. Consequences for missing your
deadline
Set up negative consequences for missing
the deadline. Necessity is the mother of all invention. If you can manage to
keep yourself intrinsically motivated, that’s great. If not, this will help
kick you into gear and keep your eye on the prize.
6. Weekly and Daily Goals (Plan)
Break down goals by week and by day,
setting up a plan to reach your overall objective. Keep the number of tasks per
day as low as you can, and focus on completing only your planned tasks for each
day. If you find yourself done, pick the next thing from your weekly list. Do
the hardest things during your peak energy level, which usually means doing
them first!
7. Prioritize
Prioritize the tasks you have in front
of you. Don’t always do the most urgent thing first. Pick the task that’s the
most important. Sometimes these overlap, which is nice. By always accomplishing
what’s most important, you are making clear progress toward your goal.
Also keep in mind that completing the
hardest task first is a sure-fire way of increasing your productivity. If you
put it off until later in the day, your energy level is bound to drop, and
finishing the hard task will seem daunting and maybe even impossible. But, if
you start off with the hardest task, when your energy level is high, you will
have the focus and energy required to finish it off.
8. Take risks
Push yourself. Go out of your comfort
zone. This is the best way to learn, and the best way to make progress quickly.
If you’re looking for new ideas, being risk averse will not help. This takes a
lot of self-awareness. Try and be conscious of when you are holding yourself
back out of fear. Push yourself to be courageous, and take that next step.
9. Perseverance
Failure is inevitable when you take
risks, which is what you’ll be doing if you want to succeed. By its very
definition, the desire to succeed at something means you are risking failure.
Many people tend to give up far too early. Don’t fall into this trap! Remember
your mindset earlier, and visualize your success. Know it will happen. A
failure is merely you working out the details, and learning what works and what
doesn’t. Use failure. Treat it as a good thing, and march on!
10. Reflect
Take time every day to sit quietly and
reflect on your values, goals, and progress made so far. Where have you
excelled, and where can you do better. Is everything you are doing still lining
up with your core values? Always look for ways to improve.
11. Learn
Never stop learning. Know what everyone
else is doing, and what everyone else has done, and how they did it. Search
wide for knowledge that might help you, and any inspiration that may do the
same. Never think you have nothing to learn from others.
"Who never done nothing wrong it's because never done nothing new" - PROFF's SPIRIT